Divorce

Divorce at midlife is complicated. Whether it comes as a relief or as a devastation, divorce can be the most difficult experience or the most freeing. It’s different for everyone, but one thing is for sure… you are not alone when it comes to divorce. Find insight, tips on how to cope, courage, compassion and understanding with Better After 50’s Divorce section.

Is a Sexless Marriage Reason To Divorce?

Shannon Bradley-CollearyJune 28, 2018

Not having a sex life is not something people advertise...and the last time we did it we had to get drunk and watch porn....

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Second Marriage: Make Sure Your Ask Each Other These Questions

Felice ShapiroJune 7, 2018

There are definitely some rules of the road that couples need to address before committing. ...

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Divorced: What To Do When Jealousy Is Ruining Your Life

Martha BodyfeltMay 24, 2018

Jealousy...When one of your grown children, after spending the weekend with your ex, tells you about the "new friend" that is at your ex's house. What to do..... ...

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5 Ways to Reclaim Your Financial Power During Divorce

Rhonda NoordykMay 3, 2018

These steps will help to set you in the right direction to better understanding and making clear decisions about your financial situation....

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Angry After Your Divorce? Here’s What To Do

Martha BodyfeltApril 26, 2018

Anger is a thief. Don’t let it rob you of your chance to move on. ...

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This is What’s Killing Your Happiness During Divorce Recovery

Martha BodyfeltApril 19, 2018

We cannot depend on outside factors to shape our attitudes in life, whether's it's when we are in recovery from divorce, dealing with employment issues, or anything else....

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12 Lessons on Leaving a Relationship

Michelle AfontApril 5, 2018

Research shows it is the manner in which you leave your prior relationship that will set the scene for your future relationships....

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Should Marriage Have a ‘Sell-by’ Date?

Delia LloydMarch 15, 2018

“In my opinion, it’s far too easy to get married in this country and far too difficult to get divorced.”...

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Lonely After Your Divorce? Here’s What To Do.

Martha BodyfeltMarch 1, 2018

He may be out of the house and you may feel relief, but there's that surprise feeling that greets you whenever you enter the empty house....

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The Secret to Getting Your Self-Esteem Back After Divorce

Martha BodyfeltFebruary 22, 2018

One of the many things we struggle with as we learn to recover from a divorce is learning how to rebuild our self-esteem....

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How to Beat the Unfairness Trap after Divorce

Martha BodyfeltFebruary 8, 2018

Let’s talk about one of the most common obstacles that stop us from moving on after divorce after 50....

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How To Know You’re Ready To Leave Your Marriage

Abby RodmanJanuary 25, 2018

People in good relationships don’t spend their days wondering if they should stay. ...

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The Guy Corner: Adjusting to the Post-50 Normal

Scott KaplanJanuary 16, 2018

It’s not always easy, but, it’s important to not be scared of change. Instead of being bummed that my son at college in the Midwest, I am happy for him and proud....

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Dear Men, Let’s Talk About Sex

Jill BeckerJanuary 8, 2018

Many of your wives/partners are unhappy with the lack of sexual energy between you, in general, and in the bedroom, in particular. ...

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Sick of Thinking About Your Ex? Help is Here!

Martha BodyfeltNovember 30, 2017

Investing your energy worrying about what your ex is doing or harboring resentment means that you’re only hurting yourself....

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Divorced and Dating Over 50: A Guy’s Perspective

Scott KaplanNovember 28, 2017

I certainly would not be averse if Margot Robbie wanted to wildly service me, but, I would rather have a woman in my life that wants to go for a run....

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Dating After Divorce: 5 Tips to Determine If You’re Ready

Jane SpringerNovember 2, 2017

Bottom line: Don't jump into any relationship quickly after your divorce. Take time to get to know yourself....

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A Mother Faces The Music At Her Daughter’s Wedding

Alexandra GrabbeOctober 19, 2017

I was hearing the soundtrack of my life in France. I had left those years behind me the day I moved out. ...

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Why Are So Many Midlife Couples Getting Divorced?

BA50 TalkersOctober 15, 2017

If you’ve been feeling as if fewer of your friends are married lately, you’re right....

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After Divorce: Finding Comfort In A New Bed

Lydia CarboneOctober 5, 2017

My man and I have been living together nonstop for several weeks now, sharing a new bed that we are making ours in a home we are making ours as our six-year relationship evolves. ...

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